After Dark Compendium
For Mature 18+ Audiences
Terms/ Tropes
Reverse Harem-MMFMM: specifically as it relates to group scenes with DP (double or more penetration at a single time. This could include with multiple partners being penetrated), or DVP (double vaginal penetration).
Possessiveness: sometimes OTT (over the top) possessiveness that borders or crosses the line of controlling.
Forbidden Romance: there is some rule either explicit, implied, or self imposed that classifies the relationship as forbidden. Most common: Age Gap, Brother’s Best Friend, Workplace Romance, (Employee/Boss or Coworkers), Doctor/Patient.
Taboo Romance (Forbidden): Relationships seen as taboo in the real world. Most common: Step Sibling/Step Family, Best Friend or (Ex)Boyfriend’s Father, Father’s Best Friend, Professor/Student, Age Gap- usually 10 years or more.
Spicy Scene Acronyms
BDSM: Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism
DP: Double Penetration
DVP: Double Vagina Penetration
FDom- Female Dominant
MDom-Male Dominant
Sub-Submissive
STFUATTDLAGG: Shut the fuck up and take this dick like a good girl.
GOYKASMCLAGG: Get on your knees and suck my cock like a good girl.
Kinks and Preferences
Aftercare: a planned way to care for your partner after sex to ensure they feel respected and cared for. It can include: cuddling, showering together/washing each other, talking and processing what happened during sex. Very prevalent in well written books that feature kink, but also in the Omegaverse.
BDSM: Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism.
Biting: arousal from biting or being bitten.
Blood Play 🩸: a sexual interest where the sight, scent, feel and/or taste of blood is sexually arousing.
Breath Play: Also know as Erotic asphyxiation (EA) involves intentionally cutting off the air supply for you or your partner.
Breeding kink- eroticizes unprotected sex with the possibility of impregnation. Either with the intent of actual impregnation or just the risk.
Edging: a sexual technique that involves stopping and starting sexual stimulation before orgasm to extend or intensify sexual pleasure.
Exhibitionism: Likes to be watched, or participate in a scene where there is a threat of someone being able to watch.
Hand Necklaces: light choking, or possessive holding, sometimes related to breath play.
Knife Play: really any weapon play 🔪, looking at you Haunting Adeline with your 🔫 play.
Mask Kink: wearing a mask or taking a mask off. Could have ties to the biker helmet kink- Anonymity within the scene.
NonCon/DubCon/CNC: Nonconsensual, Dubious Consent, Consensual Non-Consent.
Piercings: both male and female- including piercing play (where one partner pierces the other either with or without consent).
Praise (Good girl.), or Degradation (dirty little wh*re), STFUATTDLAGG. Both could fall under the umbrella of Dirty Talk.
Primal Play: centers around raw feelings, actions, and natural impulses, especially sexual urges. Usually explored when one partner chases another with the intent to catch them and engage in a sexual act to dominate them.
Shibari: Japanese term that means “to tie”, an artistic practice and Japanese style of bondage that involves tying a person up using simple but visually intricate patterns.
Size Kink: a kink or preference for a distinct difference in size, height, musculature or weight between two sexual partners.
Somnophilia: Having sex with someone who is sleeping- either with implied consent, or dubious consent.
Toys: The use of sex toys during scenes, or other objects for penetration/stimulation (see Knife/Gun play).
Voyeurism: Likes to watch the sex scene, with or without partaking, sometimes directing the acts.
